Betrayal is a lonely and hurting feeling. Especially when the betrayal is committed by a love one, lover, or friend. Confiding in someone takes courage, vulnerability, and often times emotional and physical nudity. You see, betrayal only happens when trust has been extended and trust is only extended when we feel this person is safe, or so they seem. Yet, we forget that not everyone who enters our lives falls into the category of "Trust Me I Have Your Back". Not everyone we meet is Loyal. Loyalty is a character trait that has to be developed. You either understand and practice loyalty or you constantly commit acts of disloyalty.
Some would say that Loyalty depends on the situation that a person is put into. However, situations don't create the person, the person gives power OR gives up power to the situation. Loyalty is a trait that overtime will become the biggest snitch in a relationship you will find. When it rears it's unsightly head how do you handle it? Do you give the person a chance to redeem themselves or quietly exit the relationship with your heart in your hand and tears in your eyes? Just remember, seeds start covered in dirt but they must push through the dirt to reach their full potential.
How are you at being a loyal and trust worthy spouse, friend, employee, or co-worker? Would people say that you are consistently showing loyalty and trust within your everyday relationships? Whatever we emit, that shall we receive. It is imperative that we understand the benefits that loyalty bring into our everyday existence. We are mirror images to a world where the "Crabs In A Barrel" mentality thrive and loyalty and honor which should be on display seem to be a dying characteristic. If you have a spouse, a friend, a family member, or you are displaying disloyal behavior check it now. Kindly but firmly put out into the atmosphere that Loyalty and Consistency in Relationship is a Must, and Without It, There's No Building Foundation, and No Real Trust.
Marriage is 4 Life,
T n T, (Tony & Tarenia)
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